Stop Being a Product-Focused Salesperson
Making Customers Instead of Finding Them

Using Questions to Connect with Buyers

Deb CalvertToday’s guest post by Deb Calvert, author of DISCOVER Questions™ Get You Connected. Download this free chapter today. 


It’s been said that asking questions is an art, an appealing expression requiring craftsmanship and finesse. It’s also been said that asking questions is a science, a systematic process requiring knowledge gained through observation and experimentation.

In selling, there are two schools of thought when it comes to using questions as a means to connect with buyers and advance sales to a close. You can find numerous books and training courses on this subject, and every one of them will lean one way or the other.

Sellers (and, in some cases, entire industries) adopt the school best suited to their own sales processes and/or personalities. In technical fields and complex selling, you usually find a scientific process for asking questions. With more frequent encounters between buyers and sellers, including most B2C sales, there’s a higher likelihood questions are seen as an art form with companion training related to psychology, neuroscience, storytelling and the like.

The problem with selecting one over the other? You are missing out on the full, varied and rich information that a mix of questions yields. Your technique limits you. Process drives certain types of questions. Expression drives different types.

When it comes to asking questions in selling, the versatility to use a full range of questions will give you a complete set of tools. As a scientist, you may not need a paintbrush all that often. As an artist, you may not use a microscope every day. But equipping yourself with tools that diversify your questions will give you much more to work with.

The acronym DISCOVER stands for eight distinct purposes of asking questions. Check yourself to see which ones you may be missing, and then you can fill your toolbox for art or science as needed.

Data Questions: for getting factual, objective information

Issue Questions: for probing dissatisfaction

Solutions Questions: for collaborating to co-create solutions

Consequence Questions: for revealing risks and concerns

Outcome Questions: for understanding hopes, dreams, plans, goals and visions

Value Questions: for prioritizing needs and motivating factors

Example Questions: for drawing comparisons and imagining possibilities

Rationale Questions: for understanding how decisions will be made    

To learn more about the art and science of asking questions, enjoy this free chapter from the book DISCOVER Questions™ Get You Connected. 


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